Childhood friendships hold some of the most fantastic memories for many of us. School friendships often become one of the driving forces why kids love coming to school…until those friendships change. 

 

As a parent, it is challenging to watch your child navigate developing and changing friendships.  As parents and educators, it is our job to help our kids develop a tool belt for the, “laws of friendship.” It’s difficult to observe your child feeling the angst of changing social circles and inevitably some degree of social exclusion.  

 

From early childhood, kids experiment with social power, or the exclusion of others from play groups, birthday parties or other highly regarded social inclusions. It’s a natural human response to take these exclusions personally or to feel “special” for being included. Regardless, very few of us made it through childhood friendships unscathed, nor will our children.

 

As we value social and emotional growth, we work daily with our learners to empower them as they paddle through the ebb and flow of established and budding friendships. Attached are links to articles which you may find helpful in shedding some light on the subject for you and yours.

 

Understanding Elementary Friendships

 

Understanding Middle School Friendships

 

The Laws of Friendship